Friday night I went to this party called "Grits & Biscuits" and was disappointed to find out that they served neither grits nor biscuits there. Someone described the Grits & Biscuits party as "a party where black people with jobs dance like black people without them" which was hilarious and fitting. I came with a group of guys but we got separated a few minutes after arriving to the club. I spent a good ten minutes looking for them but to no avail. Finally, I stopped looking and just stood in a corner, sipping my Red Bull and vodka and trying to look cool even though I was alone. And then I found HIM.
HIM was a white guy--the only white guy in the club. Since he was white I knew he felt out of place and would welcome a hot black girl talking to him. Jackpot. He looked a lot like Macklemore, was 36, and had two Masters degrees (win!) We chatted for awhile but no real sparks flew so I ditched him* and went to find my friends. The rest of the night was fun but uneventful. Unfortunately, we had the HARDEST time finding a cab to take us home so I ended up waiting outside on a curb in 25 degree weather until 3:45 a.m. Not gonna lie, I had a long internal debate about weather I should flash an areola or two to get a ride home. While sitting on the curb a guy yelled out at me "Hey I know you! You work at Chili's!" Long, deep sigh.
Saturday night we went to a club called Phoenix which I've been dying to go to for months. This club was unlike any club I'd ever been to: three stories, multiple DJs, bathrooms and bars popping up everywhere you looked... it was crazy. I felt like I was partying at Hogwarts. Unfortunately, when I got there they were playing reggae music and I HATE reggae. Hate it. They played a reggae version of "Father Abraham" which was honestly the most interesting compilation I've ever heard. I literally stopped and was like, "what the hell... they're really playing Father Abraham in the club". About 30 minutes later, a guy approached me, told me I was beautiful, blah blah, and asked me my name. I gave him my real name (I love my name too much to make up a fake club alias) and asked him for his.
HIS NAME WAS ABRAHAM. I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP.
I died laughing the irony (note: I am not actually sure this constitutes as ironic. Where is Alanis when you need her?) and we ended up exchanging numbers. I've been screening his calls ever since though (can you blame me? His name was ABRAHAM). I met another guy named Tron but didn't even bother with the number exchange because his name was Tron. So that's that.
Solid weekend overall. I got whiplash from a guy swinging his dreads in my face Saturday night and almost died of hypothermia Friday night but what can you do. It felt good to go out and meet people and I can't wait to do it again soon!
*Actually he ditched me. Whatever.
